Expectations concerning family rules may vary between adults and children in family families and mixed families. Adding to children for a while to adjust before you follow a lot of new rules. If parents and partners support each other and agree with the general principles, they function best. It is necessary that you initially meet with your husband or other significant and set mutually pleasant rules. To begin with, decide on the basics such as the time of skirts, procedures and expectations for each child. Don’t complicate things. Try to arrange something like these rules that are important to follow in a mixed family:
Take reality
Your baby will love you more than they love your stack; Link of parents and children existed before your connection with your partner; And not all relationships in the mixed family will be as dense (some dials will be better than others).
Keep some special time “Parents”
Children normally to make children initially opposed to being a single, satisfied with a mixed family. For example, a child may continue to hope that their divorced or separated parents will reconcile. They can also think that their parents ignore them because of new relationships. We advise you to spend time with your biological children from this. So you can continue to spend precious one for one time with your baby. Your new partner can start creating your own ties at the same time. This may take some time to make these new compounds develop.
Give up your perfect mixed family dreams
All the most likely, it will not go as planned because children deal with some serious difficulties such as divorce or death of parents. Try the most difficult and live every day as it comes. That’s enough. This is true.
Nurture respect for all
Each connection is polite and deserves respect despite the age or position in the family. Every voice must be heard. This goes beyond how children act before adults. Respect must be shown not only from the age, but also because you are all family now.
Correct Rules of upbringing children before re -substitution
Before getting married, make improvements in your upbringing. Before re -marry, decide how you will jointly your parents with your new partner and make the necessary changes to the approaches to upbringing. The adjustment will go smoothly and your children will not be upset by your new husband for amendments.
