These days we are constantly talking about calls, messages, during meetings and at home. But just because we say no longer means that we feel heard or understood. Some of the most devastating conversations do not provide for screams and big arguments. They happen quietly, in small habits that often go unnoticed. Over time, these samples can make us feel ignored, misunderstood or even disrespectful. The subtle connection does not always look obvious. It can be anyone of your feelings or leads every conversation about yourself. Even if they look like minor things, they can slowly harm friendship, relationships or work communication. Here are five early signs of unhealthy communication – and simple ways to solve them without creating greater tension.