Raising kind and respectful children is every parent’s goal, but sometimes children can exhibit behaviors that predispose them to bullying without even realizing it. The good news is that parents can play a very important role in shaping a child’s behavior. Teach them empathy, respect and inclusiveness can help prevent bullying tendencies. Here are 5 tips to make sure your child grows up to lift others up, not tear them down.
Don’t belittle or give up on your child
Children at a tender age mostly copy what they feel.
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If they are humiliated or dismissed at home, they may act out these feelings on others. Instead of scolding harshly, approach the matter calmly and with understanding. For example, if they are upset, allow them to express their feelings and validate them before discussing the best ways to deal with the frustration. When they feel respected, they are more likely to show respect to others.
Correct problem behavior as soon as possible without being shy
If your child does exhibit bullying behavior, it’s important to address it immediately, but avoid calling him a “bully.” Shyness can damage their self-esteem and lead to resentment, which can worsen their behavior. Instead, focus on action. A parent might say, “It hurt to push your friend. How do you think they felt?’ This helps them understand the impact of their behavior without feeling personally attacked.
Learn the difference between bullying and “just having fun”
Sometimes children think they are joking, but their words or actions can hurt others. Explain to them that teasing becomes bullying when it is repeated or is intended to cause emotional or physical harm to someone. Use examples from their everyday lives, for example showing how calling someone names may seem funny to one person but can be very upsetting to another.
Encourage helping behavior
One of the best ways to reduce bullying is to encourage kindness. Teach your child the joy of helping others, whether it’s standing up for a bullied classmate or sharing their toys with someone new. Praise them when they show compassion, as this reinforces positive behavior.
Teach them about inclusiveness
Bullying can arise from a lack of understanding or acceptance of differences. Help your child learn about other cultures, abilities, and perspectives. Read books together that celebrate diversity, watch shows that promote kindness, and talk openly about why everyone deserves to be treated with respect. When children understand and value differences, they are less likely to exclude or hurt others.
