7 questions “that can save any marriage,” according to a relationship coach

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Amanda Twiggs Jones, an American “mindset expert and relationship coach” shared the post “7 Questions That Can Save Any Marriage,” writing: “If you and your partner find yourself stuck, these 7 important questions can help you get out of the jam and find a way forward.”

Check out her 7 questions

1. Why is this such a big problem for you?

Get to the heart of the matter by understanding your partner’s point of view.

2. How do you feel about this problem?

Create a safe space for emotional honesty and validation.

3. On a scale of 1 to 10, how big is this problem for you?

Get clear on the importance of the problem and solve it together.

4. What does this problem symbolize for you?

Uncover the deeper fears or unmet needs that are fueling the conflict.

5. When did it start and how long does it last?

Provide context and show that you are committed to understanding.

6. Is there anything else I need to know about this problem?

Leave no stone unturned and honestly seek their perspective.

7. Can you solve this without my help? If not, how can I support you?

Empower your partner and demonstrate your commitment to working together.

4 mandatory practices for par

Is your relationship or marriage going through a rough patch? According to a recent Instagram post by Jordan Dunn, a somatic couples therapist and licensed psychoanalyst, there are four key practices every couple can incorporate into their daily lives to strengthen their bond and ensure long-term happiness together.

1. Don’t expect your partner to meet all of your relationship needs

2. Align your intentions, words and actions

3. Become emotionally literate and direct

4. Prioritize your communication

Read more about them here.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice.