What went wrong in your recent relationship? A psychologist shares a guide on how to notice red flags

Did your last relationship stop working even when you were interested in all the boxes of effort, loyalty, commitment and trust? Well, it may be because you didn’t notice the red flags of the partner at the right time. In an interview with HT Lifestyle, Kumar Aishvaria, counseling and rehabilitation psychologist said: “Red flags are the signs that tell us, who to know, it is almost like a warning about an unhealthy pattern of behavior in a relationship.” Also Read Are you worried about your partner’s red flags? What about your? Learn how to determine your toxic behavior

In addition, the psychologist noted the red flags that we should not ignore:

All conversations and no action:

If a partner is just about words and no action. They can promise a lot, but when it comes to delivery of these words, they do not work again and again.

Consistently lying:

If you are constantly finding them that lie about very small details, always remember that it starts with small details and grow into a big lie.

Love bombing:

Love bombing gives excessive loving gestures in the form of words, gifts, promising the future, etc. It emotionally binds a person, and soon they begin to take love. Also Read Warnings about the relationship: from love to bombing to gas lighting; 9 red flags you should never ignore

Silent treatment:

Communication is the key to any healthy relationship. The most important thing for verbalizing your thoughts to your partner is difficult. If after which the problem your partner gives silent treatment, then it is a red flag. This means that the partner completely closes himself for any conversation and behaves the way you are not present. This behavior creates a lot of anxiety for a person who is at the reception. Also Read Early to recognize red flags: key relationship lessons end with us

Gas:

The partner’s gas lighting is another large red flag. In this case, the partner makes you believe that everything they say is not true, and their reality is constantly questioned. This behavior creates anxiety and stress, as the partner can start doubt and eventually begins to lose confidence.

Note for readers: This article is intended only for information purposes rather than to replace professional advice.