Actress Rani Mukegirje, who is 10 -year -old daughter Adir Chopra, recently told how she was cheating her daughter to have healthy food. While talking to MasterChef Sanjeev Kapoor, actress Saatia said, “Har Din, it goes,” Mumma and Want Rasgulla “, and now there is a new trend ki bachhon ko meetha se duur, Sugar is a poison, what I agree. But I also feel like Bachhon Ko Agar Upar Se Bole Ye Mat Khaon Woh Mat Khaon, Toh Woh Zyada Kahat Hai. Isiliye Mera Plan Alag Hai, she said, adding that “the main USKO abhi bolti hoon khao khao, phir usko aise lagega mummy mummy aisa kyun bol rahi hai – let me eat Karel next.”What technique of upbringing the wound uses the woundRani accepts help from what is known as reverse psychology when it comes to raising children. But what kind of technique is, and why it works (or not)? We’ll see …
What is back psychologyReverse psychology plays over the natural desire of children for independence and control. (Yes, even from young years) But, like any upbringing tool, it has both advantages and disadvantages. Let’s go deeper …What is back psychology in raising childrenReverse psychology means promoting behavior, judging by the opposite. This works because many children, especially small and teenagers, want to claim their independence and resist direct orders. For example, when the father says, “Don’t watch TV”, the child may want to watch TV purposefully, even if he is not in the mood, just say independence.Parents often use this technique to force children to do business, eat healthy foods, prepare for sleep or do homework. This can be a subtle way to guide the behavior without direct commands.What are the proEncourages independence (from young years)Children naturally want to feel in control. Reverse psychology presses this, causing them to feel their choice. This can enhance their confidence and help develop decision -making skills.For example, instead of forcing the child to clean his room, the father can say, “I don’t think you can clean your room better than me.” A child can perceive this as a challenge and quickly removed, feeling honored for their independence.No struggle about powerDirect teams often lead to resistance and arguments. Reverse psychology can reduce these struggles for power by avoiding direct confrontation. It makes the child feel less pressure and more ready to cooperate.
Makes it difficult for the babyDressing tasks as problems or competitions, parents can motivate children eagerly. For example, to challenge the child to finish his studies before a certain time can turn the care of the game.Activates communication skillsWith careful use, back psychology encourages dialogue, not direct orders. This can improve the connection between parents and children and help establish positive understanding.What is the downsidesCan be evaluated as “manipulative”Children, especially older ones, can feel that they are manipulated when reverse psychology is used. This can lead to distrust and damage to parents and children.Don’t always workReverse psychology works best for children who are naturally opposition or use problems. For compatible or sensitive children, it may beat the fire or just don’t work.Could lead to contraryWhen children find out what parents often say the opposite of what they mean, they can become more intricate or test the boundaries more often, leading to a greater behavioral problem.Can create confusionYoung children can receive ambiguous messages when parents are too often using reverse psychology. This can embarrass them in what is expected and make it harder to study good habits.DayThe bottom line is that raising children is never the only size, so do what you consider correct, but regardless of the technique, use it well and sparingly. Too much -nothing is never a good thing!
