Specifying your fingers at the relationship, trying to decide whose fault is that the ship is immersed easily. But the difficult part is the correct questions, not for your partner, but for yourself. Questions like “Can I be a problem in relationships?” Let you knock out the best of us, because there is a congenital inclination to always see yourself in a better light, with a generous rationalization “I can’t do anything wrong.”
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Perhaps the answer to the maintenance of the relationship is to open your eyes and look inside. Jeff Getera, who is often shared with relationships and dating in his profile, shared on June 19, four ways that tell you about problems in relationships.
Here are 4 things that share Jeff Gunther, which may indicate that you dig a hole in the relationship:
1. Being too “honest”
You say regularly, I’m just honest, but you actually frankly, or you just blur everything you feel without emotional regulation? It’s not bold. It’s brazen and mean. There is the best way to convey your truth without turning it into weapons.
2. Being a “great man”
You are always a great person that probably just means that you avoid hard conversations, choke your needs and silently building against a partner. This is not emotional maturity; This is a martyr’s death, and I guarantee that you go out as super condescending.
3. Be “passive-aggressive”
You get a truly quiet and recalled and pretended to be just fine if it’s not. To find out if your partner notices, as you hurt, they haven’t initiated for a while, so you are passively aggressively distracted and wait for them to chase you. It does not set the border, it is an emotional game, tell me what you need. Do not make them decipher the sullen.
4. By making a favor
You feel that you do the service by meeting them because at heart you believe that you are more developed, catch, imposing yourself on a very high pedestal, causes shutdown, resentment and one -sided power dynamics.
Note for readers: This article is intended only for information purposes rather than to replace professional advice.
