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AARA, 13:
“My mother scolds me about everything. I feel exhausted! I know I’m not perfect and what I’m making mistakes. I’m not fine in my studies, and I spend 3-4 hours playing mobile games after school. But it’s not what I don’t want to do well in life-I just fight focus and stay. I feel like I have a motivation.
Expert response:
Dear Aarau, you know what best do you have? You understand that it is right and not so and this is the first step to success.
It is important to understand that parents are the only people in the world who love you more than their own lives. Not all express love equally. Your mother may not openly show her love but she’s deeply cares for you. You never wondered why she scolded you? This is because she wants you to do your best. If she asks you to cut your screen time, it doesn’t make you unhappy – it’s because she thinks it will help you focus on your future.
Auar, these years of your life will form your future. Would it be too difficult to devote a few hours of self -improvement? Remember, the more the diamond is cut and polished, the more it shines. Here’s a simple plan to follow for two weeks – to me, you will see the difference in yourself and your parents’ behavior to you:
- Learn for four hours daily for 21 days.
- Do what your mother asks without delay.
- Silence, even if you feel the desire to argue.
- For every hour of study, reward yourself for 15 minutes of playing time.
- Eat a bowl with mixed fruit daily to help with mood balance.
- Get at least eight hours of sleep every night.
Try it for 21 days and write us about your experience. You may be surprised by positive changes!
