From time to time, even the calmest people find themselves in an embarrassing situation, veering at the sharpest point to break out of a social impasse. Shalini Passi, a fine art collector and fan-favorite star of Bollywood Wives, has won the hearts of netizens with her quirky, carefree and true-to-herself personality. She shared with TweakIndia her smart ways to get out of a difficult situation. Given her cool, collected and calm demeanor, her way of transmitting Zen is worth noting.
Ignorance is true bliss
Shalini Passi said, “Imagine that I do not know anything about this. I don’t want to be involved in something that isn’t happening.” There is some truth to the saying that ignorance is bliss. If there is a hint of any rumor or gossip behind your back, be like Shalini and don’t lose sleep over it. Don’t dig to prove yourself. If it’s not true, it will just disappear over time. Involving yourself in it will create unnecessary drama and mentally disturb you.
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Positive passions
Shalini Passi unashamedly singing Mitwa in the show definitely exudes confidence. She is strongly associated with singing. Shalini explained, “I always believe that if you channel your energy into sports or even singing for example…singing is like a release from anger, from emotions, not from negative thoughts.”
Hobby is a creative outlet that evokes strong emotions and helps you get a better look at any problem. Depressed and angry? Walk, work up a sweat with a good jog, or journal. In a world of short attention spans, cultivating a hobby is extremely important for your mental health. A good hobby is a productive and safe home for your emotions, grounding intensity with a strong embrace.
Do not tolerate negative criticism
Shalini Passi’s whimsical behavior on the show was a surprise and complimented by her co-stars, but it didn’t weigh her down or stop her from being herself. She said, “You shouldn’t let anyone’s opinion influence you.” Shalini suggested that a simple WhatsApp message could help with the job. Perfect when a personal confrontation makes your stomach drop like a drop from a roller coaster.
Be transparent about the criticism and how much it hurt you. This not only improves communication by clearing the air, but also prevents the possibility of misunderstanding. So, be free to communicate and don’t brush off offensive jokes. Tolerating it will overshadow your own self-esteem.
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Don’t ramble on in conversations
Often gets lost in the conversation, overexplaining the problem. In this process, the essence of emotion and meaning are lost in translation. She said: “For me, it’s like short, sweet, fun and loving, and that’s how it should be.”
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