There is always the reason that people behave the way they do. Nothing exists in isolation. Some parents usually use very strict disciplined methods for their children: from shouting to physical punishment. But is it just forcing your baby to behave? Is it just a child just inexpressable and leading parents to intense measures? This is much more than you understood.
The study published in the magazine is explained that parents who are uncertain about their romantic relationships are tougher in their children. Unsupported emotional problems in their relationship make parents bring it to children.
As the attachment styles form up the upbringing of children
In relation to how people form emotional connections with each other, it is called the style of affection. There are two main types that studied the study: anxiety of commitment (fear of refusal, refusal, constant need for soothing) and avoidance (discomfort with emotional intimacy). Both fastening styles can form the upbringing style, with clear emotional roots and reasoning.
Parents with anxious attachment style are usually dangerous in their relationship and refusal of fear of a partner. As a result, they are more likely to displace this anxiety and attacked their children. Moving is also a mechanism for combating their anxiety. Children become simple goals. Most importantly, there is a gap between the child and the father. Because most of their energy is spent on seeking assurances and checking the partner, they are so carried away by their excitement that they are struggling to understand their child’s emotions.
Similarly, parents with a strengthening style can also use strict discipline, but for various reasons. Instead of feeling anxious about their partner, they feel emotionally disabled both from a partner and from the family. Their fierce discipline is more due to low confidence in their upbringing skills, not not understanding their child.
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How strict discipline affects the child
Hard discipline can cause mental health problems ultimately. At the same time, children can also suffer from emotional and behavioral problems.
That is why the researchers once again confirmed the importance of parents’ self -awareness about the styles of commitment. Visiting the master classes for raising children not only teaching their upbringing, but also opens their emotional roots and makes them face their inner thoughts, conflicts and emotions.
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Note for readers: This article is intended only for information purposes rather than to replace professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of a doctor with any medical issues.
