Fis false can be a difficult problem that often stems from deeper major factors. On May 6, the Dutsk Duma, a link coach, shared on Instagram a message on how understanding the main causes of betrayal can help people and couples solve root problems and work for treatment and growth. Also Read 7 questions “that can save any marriage”, according to the coach to the relationship
In his post called “why people cheat”, he shared his possible reasons, writing: “The deception rarely goes out of nowhere. This is often a symptom of something deeper not only in relationships but also in a person who cheats.”
She continued to list “basic emotional or mental states that usually make people cheat”:
1. Avoid emotional repression
Ray said, “They do not know how to sit with discomfort, report dissatisfied needs or fight conflicts. Instead of leaning, they run away (not to be confused with disdainful and terrible avoidance).”
2. Low self -value or check
“Some people use attention or sex as a way to feel desirable, visible or alive, especially when they linked their own value to external check,” she said.
3. Resentment and emotional extension
“Instead of talking about their pain, they are silent.
4. Addiction, injury or impulsive problems
She said: “For some cheating less about relationships and more about the violation of regulation. They use sex or sharp sensations to avoid themselves.”
5. Right or lack of empathy
Ray added: “Some people genuinely believe that they deserve to do what they want and minimize the influence of their actions (it can be narcsisistic, but not always).”
6. Fantasies of freedom
Further, she said, “People who are in a long-term relationship sometimes cheat on the sense of” captured “, even if the trap is just the emotional closeness they fear.”
7. The main truths
“Most of the deceptions happen at the time of the shutdown: from a partner, from relationships or from themselves. Cheating speaks more about the inner world of the fraudder than a worthy partner,” Ray shared.
Cheating may be about pain or dissatisfied needs
She came to the conclusion: “Alien betrayal is not a reflection of your dignity. This is a reflection of your own shutdown on the part of yourself and their inability to communicate or choose.
The signature will read: “The deception is not always about sex. Sometimes it is about pain, emotional shutdown, dissatisfied needs or trying to feel something when we are numb. This post is not about justification. It is about understanding why under behavior. Because we understand the root, we stop repeating the same pain.”
Did you know that microwave, which is often regarded as a form of betrayal, includes subtle actions such as like a photo employee or send direct messages? Click here to learn more about it.
Note for readers: This article is intended only for information purposes rather than to replace professional advice.
