Consent is cool, but context is all. Speaking so that sex does not really mean that one is on one page. This is much more nuanced than you think. There are many emotional costs to agree with sex without being emotionally on board.
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A study from Finland, published in the magazine of sex and marriage therapy, considered this aspect, studying the reasons for reluctance and how they, in turn, affect the relationship.
Causes of reluctance of consent
Researchers inspected 948 Finnish adults between the ages of 18 and 50, which were on sexual relations.
The study called this behavior as “sexual preservation”. This is not a force, because a person voluntarily agrees, but it provides major factors such as commitments, fear of angry and guilt. Couples in long -term relationships are particularly likely to participate in sexual compliance to protect their relationship, avoid conflicts or maintain closeness.
According to researchers, 38% of participants were performed more than 100 times. But again, it depends on the context. When people do this to enhance intimacy and intimacy, they tend to feel good. But if this is not the fear of perceived consequences, they usually feel dissatisfaction, which can load relationships.
What affects sexual conservation?
Researchers also looked at the styles of commitment. Emotionally safe people, that is, they have no anxious affection and refusal, can easily report whether they have sex or not. They feel safe, frankly with their partner.
But those who are not so emotionally safe can be easily succumbed, swaying, or just feel anxiety or have no persistence to express their needs.
Moreover, women tend to have anxious affection more than men, which suggests that they are more likely to agree with the fear of refusal. They also usually feel emotionally upset.
While men feel more confident and do not strongly affect sexual preservation.
The study shares an important reminder of mutual respect and emotional security, which is the main basis of healthy intimacy. Being open, you can communicate if they are not in the mood.
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Note for readers: This article is intended only for information purposes rather than to replace professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of a doctor with any medical issues.
